The Anxiety Decision Trap™

Because confusion and worry cause some widows to put off making difficult, but vital decisions, many do not have a clear set of goals for the future or a plan in place to help them achieve their goals. If decisions are made, they may be made too quickly after the loss of their husband and may be based on emotion not on logic and their true needs. I call this The Anxiety Decision Trap™ and I’ve noticed that the three major problems detailed below can occur. The Vision Confidence Program™ addresses each of these issues.

Problem 1
Problem 2
Problem 3
Run out of money
Lose their independence
Unable to achieve goals

May feel forced to sell their home

May not be able to travel to visit family

Cannot afford major discretionary purchases

They do not know how much money they have

They do not know how much money they will need to maintain their lifestyle

They do not have an accurate estimate on how long they will live

They have not established a budget

Constantly worried about money

Spending foolishly

They have to rely on other people to maintain their home

They need other people to drive them around

Forced to rely on family for transportation and other support

Unprepared for health problems

No contingency plans for unexpected expenses

Other people make decisions on their behalf - these are decisions they have simply accepted because they do not know all of their alternatives

Make inappropriate decisions that have long term repercussions
Do not have clear goals

Do not communicate their goals to advisors and families

They are used to following their husband's lead on decisions and goals

No plan in place

They end up with inappropriate plans and investments

Find they have a declining sense of purpose

Feel they are working for their money, instead of it working for them

They bounce around between advisors and strategies

 




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